A Mother’s Time: Love That Lingers Like Candlelight
There’s something timeless about a mother’s love. Whether she raised you from birth, stepped in later in life, loved you like her own, or nurtured a pet, her love isn’t measured by biology, but by presence, care, and time.
The best moms don’t just give us their love—they give us their time. They are generous, patient, and wholehearted. They spend time listening when we don’t have the words, cheering us on when we doubt ourselves, and simply being there, even when they are tired and life is demanding.
I think about my mom often. She was sassy and vibrant, full of personality that made everyone around her laugh. She loved life, but always on her terms. She spoke her mind, danced to her rhythm, and showed love in the most real, raw, and genuine ways. She’d tease you one moment and laugh it off the next. That was her way—fierce and loving all at once.
She wasn’t one to sugarcoat things, but you never had to question where you stood with her. She cared deeply. She gave her time freely, always wanting us to come together to celebrate. To her, this is what made life memorable, and she could make even ordinary moments feel like something worth remembering. Her love was unconditional and provided comfort, illuminating even the darkest moments of our lives. Much like the soft glow of a lit candle, she brought light, tranquility, and love into our home, reminding us that even in tough times, we could find peace and solace in each other. That is what I learned from my mom and what I have passed down to my son.
Since she passed, I’ve come to see time so differently. Time is the thread that ties love and memory together. And when someone you love is gone, you realize how each second spent with them was a gift. Lighting a candle has become one of the ways I feel close to her. It’s a quiet ritual. A soft flame that reminds me: she’s still with me.
Candles remind me of all mommas—burning with quiet strength, filling a room with warmth and calm. Whether it’s the tender exhaustion of a new mom, the loyal care of a pet mom, the strength of someone who mothers others without the title, or the memory of a mom who is no longer here, this kind of love deserves to be honored.
Every candle I create embodies love and connection. It goes beyond mere fragrance or wax; it represents presence and time. It's about honoring those who show up for us with their whole hearts. My mother-in-law was like a second mom to me, loving with her whole heart, and she consistently showed up for our family in both big and small ways. A true warrior, she fought her illness with incredible strength, and even in her darkest days, there was still love behind her eyes. In her way, her candle continues to shine brightly.
Candles can illuminate the path to cherished memories and help find peace in quiet moments. At least, that’s how it is for me. I hope candles provide you with the same feelings as well.
To all moms, Happy Mother’s Day. You are the light in our lives. And in every slow-burning flame, we honor you.
